Balancing the “I-do” industry takes the strength of Sunflowers [cory&nikki; corona, ca]

There is a balance, a vital balance, that I believe is often lost in the wedding industry. It’s the balance of simple vs. lavish, DIY vs. hiring, marrying your best friend vs. marrying your wedding day.

Ouch, that one hurt. Guilty as charged. I desire lavish and I certainly adore hired help. But at the end of the day that’s not what it is really about, is it? It’s about a celebration honoring marrying your best friend. Marrying the one that will encourage you through life’s hard times, pull you through life’s tough times, and rejoice with you through every second of the good times.

There is a balance that the wedding industry encourages us to ignore. Ignore the ceremony and head straight to the reception…right? Ignore the reason we are here, and get the party started! As a photographer, we even struggle with that balance…

Capture every detail that so many late nights and tears went into deciding or capture the way he looks at her, like he can’t catch his breath and only wishes for this one moment to last forever. Do we jet out of the ceremony for a quick minute because the florist finished the flowers on the cake? Oh balance…

I’ve known Nikki since – oh – probably junior high…her older sister and I were completely inseparable. From high school, to college, to finishing our Master’s together, I knew Nikki had a sense of balance about her. She knew that the celebration was important, but what was more important was the man she was marrying. Looking around their wedding, everything was perfectly balanced.

Simple vs. lavish – balanced.
DIY vs. hired professionals – balanced.
…It was amazing…

None of this to say that their wedding was anything short of remarkable. It was beyond remarkable. It screamed L.O.V.E. louder than any thousand-dollar centerpiece I have ever seen.

Mama Mia Maternity! [gracie&danny, corona]

Gracie is probably one of the most beautiful pregnant women we have ever seen. Of course, I think pregnancy on women is one of the most attractive times, but thats just me; and I am sure the little life growing inside me has a huge impact on that thought! Maybe it something about the miracle of life, or the glow that the mom’s-to-be get, or just the excitement in general of treasuring the new chapter that is about to unfold…. whatever it is — maternity photos hold an extra special place in my heart!

We spent some time with her right before the holidays, capturing a sweet session before she -most likely- gets put on bed rest. Carrying twins is hard work – though she makes it look like a breeze!

-Enjoy!

Thanksgiving 2011 [Corona Family, Fields of Corona]

Thanksgiving came and went this year in a blink of an eye. Between weddings, family shoots and family time, I wonder if anyone else besides me felt that it just didn’t quite feel like the holidays arrived – and before I knew it we were in the weekend after Thanksgiving… thats a strange sensation.

The night before Thanksgiving I lay awake, wondering how different next Thanksgiving is going to be with Kara and Liliana here. I not-so-quickly- jerked myself back to reality and refocused on this year – this Thanksgiving – this day with family, that I would never be able to get back. While I treasured every kick and roll I felt from Liliana throughout the day, I secretly made it my mission to smother Kara with more kisses and hugs than she ever received in her life…and Nick too, for that matter!

I sat to write this post, featuring a few of our pre-Thanksgiving day photos from the amazing Diana Stoffel, and felt overwhelmingly thankful and grateful for my family. The list became too long to even begin as thoughts raced through my mind of how blessed I am. How blessed I am to have a husband who doesn’t just care for me, but cares about me. How thankful I am to have a husband that works twenty-four hours a day (literally at the fire station) to provide for his family. How fortunate I am to have a husband that loves me, cherishes me, challenges me and encourages me. How blessed I am to have him…never pulling from in front or pushing from behind, but holding…steadfastly…from my side. There isn’t this list of things he does or says, qualities he has, characteristics he possess, that I can create to say what I am thankful for…because I that implies that there could be a list of things that I am not thankful for; pieces of him that I would say, “Thanks but no thanks.” …and the simple truth is that there just isn’t a “Thanks but no thanks” list. He is my list. He IS everything I am thankful for.

Hmmmm… that made me think…

Kara? Surprisingly she fell into the same boat. I could ramble on for days about how much I love her personality, how I cherish every witty and hysterical things she says, how I am amazed at how she learns and picks up on hundreds of new things a week… I could create a list like that that is never ending. But the truth of the matter is that she, too, is exactly what I am thankful for. She is everything I am thankful for. And Liliana? Oh man. Every kick and turn brings a smile to my heart and I feel like I could burst into tears at any given second thinking about how incredibly blessed we are to have her almost here. Thankful? Words fall short of describing! She is everything I am thankful for.

I could continue with parents and siblings, grandparents and extended family – and the whole time I am thinking about how thankful I am for crazy family and my crazy life…I stop and realize that the One who we are all truly thankful for is God. Thankful that He knew us before we were born, laid out perfect and amazing plans for our lives, cherishes every freckle on our face, and loves us so much that He gave us His son. For Him, I am so, so thankful. For His love and grace, for His mercy and kindness. For His design and plan, for me and my family, and for creating for me a husband and daughters that ARE everything I could ever be thankful for.

Blessed… Fortunate… Lucky… whatever it is that you want to call it – its all because He first loved me… and I am truly Thankful.

Hannah LimonDecember 11, 2011 - 2:45 am

Om my word Kara is getting so big. We all miss you guys!!! And hope
we can see you guys very, very, very soon. We love you guys!!!

Hannah

P.S. Micah says hi, he talks about you guys all the time, and says that he wants to see you guys for Christmas.

Kayla ThompsonDecember 9, 2011 - 1:26 am

Great pictures! :)

KellyDecember 5, 2011 - 6:18 pm

Beautiful! Can’t wait to see the rest of the images and more importantly, can’t wait to see you this weekend! AH!

CoreyDecember 5, 2011 - 3:10 am

You guys are simply amazing. And I can’t believe how grown up Kara looks in that last picture. Awesome job Diana!

Brittney PecoreDecember 4, 2011 - 4:04 pm

So cute! I wanna see your family shot! Great Job Diana!!!!

KellieDecember 4, 2011 - 7:20 am

Oh my goodness….those are such adorable pictures!!!! Kara is getting so big!!!

Trisha MillerDecember 4, 2011 - 6:40 am

Beatiful family photos to cherish forever!!! And a beautiful well written post! Thank you for sharing!

“I believe in a thing called LOVE” [matt&heather, pepperdine university, malibu]

Even though I am probably the least-bit of a fan of 80′s long-haired-head-banging rock music there is, there is something about the silly words in this song that stick with me. “I believe in a thing called love.” Actually kind of profound. Believing in something means putting your trust in it. Like I believe when I sit in a chair I won’t end up on the ground…I trust the chair. Silly analogy? Okay then. I believe my best friend will take my secrets to her grave….I trust her.

So…to believe in a thing called love? To trust that love will overcome, conquer all, pick you up when you are down, get you through, bring happiness… wow… that’s a lot of trust in a thing called love. Can love really do all that? I believe it can…I trust it can. I see the way a husband and wife look at each other and I know it can.

There is something so remarkable about getting to photograph a husband and wife. We are photographing the love they believe in. A love they trust. A love they know. On their fifth, fifteenth and fiftieth wedding anniversaries they get to look at their wedding photos – see and feel all over again that love they believe in.

Yes, I am convinced. Believing in love is profound.

Matt & Heather are the purest demonstration of a belief in love. They know that their love will conquer all, will pick them up when they are down, will bring happiness and will show through in their photographs well beyond their fiftieth anniversary. The way they look at each other gives me butterflies (and no it’s not just the baby moving around). Their love is amazing. Their love is beautiful.

Reception Location: Malibu West Beach Club
Florist: Diana Petrusan
Cake: Cakes by Jeanine
Wedding Dress: Mikaella
Wedding Ring Design: Verragio @ Robbins Brothers

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