The San Diego Temple communicated to the brides and grooms scheduled to be sealed there that they would be undergoing construction from February to August. That means red tape, scaffolding and primer would be the background instead of what use to be the number one sought after temple in Southern California. (I mean, San Diego has pretty much perfect weather all year long, so any immaculate building has a tremendous advantage). We got a call in early February from Alyssa and Randy…their wedding was in May…smack dab in the middle of the construction schedule.
It briefly took my back to my own wedding. One week before we got married, Nick and I visited the courtyard we were getting married in. The surrounding building were under construction, the windows were boarded up, the grass was dead and there was a five-man consturction crew, including power tools, set up on our stage… “Ummm… Someone needs to take care of this…STAT!” The wedding coordinator assured us that everything would be back in order within the next 4 days, and surprisingly it was. So it was no question what needed to be done for Alyssa. I made a special trip down to the temple before the construction began that way I would have some beautiful photos of the temple to offer them, as any consolation.
When I arrived to the temple on their wedding day it was worse than I imagined. Scaffolding covered every inch of the temple. Quiet glances were exchanged between family members waiting outside, terrified looks between myself and my second shooter, Nick Wisda. Really, did it really look like… this??!

I was glad that I would be able to at least edit one of their photos to look like this.

San Diego… the perfect weather I mentioned earlier….on their day was gloomy. Heavy grey clouds hung over the area. It was like the dream every bride does not want to have. The dream where their dress rips, their cake falls apart, their flowers wilt, or are missing… the wedding nightmare. My heart went out for Alyssa. Construction tape and scaffolding, heavy grey clouds… what else could happen?
Then, Alyssa and Randy emerged from the temple and… it was as if the clouds disappeared and the scaffolding became invisible. Alyssa and Randy radiated excitement and love that out-shone even the brightest red tape. They were married…and that was all the mattered. At their reception lunch they sang a duet, “The Way I Am” by Ingrid Michaelson. The lyrics prove that no amount of construction or gloominess could bring them down. They are meant for each other. They cherish each other. They love each other the way each one is. Bottom line… they were married… and nothing else mattered.












Your love and positiveness is contagious. What a beautiful day!
by Liz Corona
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